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V. C. Ackerman's avatar

When I was very little, a boy used to bully me. At one point, he pushed me off the sidewalk and onto the road. The road was near empty at the time, but in my terror I had imagined that a car would come at any moment and run me over. My mother found out about this. Without my knowledge she confronted the boy, grabbed him by the collar, and threatened to hurt him if he ever did that to me again.

She told me what she did years later. I think I was supposed to feel happy about my mother defending me against a bully, especially since it worked! The boy never hurt me again after that! But I couldn’t help but be horrified that a grown woman threatened bodily harm toward a boy less than ten years old. And every so often I think back to him and wonder if she traumatized that kid.

I know talking nicely rarely works. I know the majority of times, cruel people like Jasper don’t stop unless you hurt them or at least threaten to break something. I know if my mom hadn’t done anything, that boy probably would have continued to bully me after the road incident. But God, it doesn’t feel good. It doesn’t feel good at all.

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V Moire's avatar

Before I even read the story, I just want to go on record as saying I love the title.

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